I love YOU girl.

Times have changed. The traditional woman, whose values were taught to her by both her mother and father,is almost extinct. Before women, were taught to be respectful, to dress and act a certain way, and even if thats stressed now, it doesn't amount to much. Single family households, have increased more than ever, and the bitter woman has formed. The pretty face, and silicone body is in, so everyone has tried their best to meet the standards of this new life. We, as woman have settled for the 'sex sells' standard, and have tried our best to show as much skin, without being completely naked,to make ends meet. We settle for degrading comments, of how that dress fits along our curvy asses, or round breasts. After all, the more we show, the more $$$ it brings. Parents stopped guiding their daughters to be proper women, not because they don't care, but because they lacked the time to. Bills have to be paid, and unfortunately for some, no daddy around.

Everyone is searching for something to fill the hole they don't know exists. So we post pictures in our panties & bras, thinking that a like will make us feel better about ourselves. When in reality it never will. No one will ever respect you, for showing so much of yourself to any and everyone who wants to see, because honestly, do YOU even respect yourself? You can't. You don't even understand what respect means. Respect is a mindset. Its walking in a room full of men, and them not wanting to act on their sexual instinct because of how much they fxck with you. It's your work ethic speaking up for you, before you even open your mouth. It's carrying yourself with a confidence level that the whole room feels.

The problem is, I don't think enough women encourage women. Instead, women are intimidated by each other. Its a competition, instead of a union. Women, don't control the world, because we don't allow ourselves to. Instead we rule from the back seat, because of our ability to persuade our man. Even Adam, had no clue to what Eve was up to. Not enough women feel they can do for themselves, without their looks, or body. Don't get me wrong,I'm not a hypocrite. I work in the night life, so I know that when I wear less, the better the tip, so I oblige. But, my mind can & will carry me way further than my looks ever could. I'm not blind, I know, there are hotter women, with better bodies, but what they have in looks and body, I make up for in mind. While I've always been attractive, I never rely on it. I know one day my looks will fade, as the years continue to pass, and my youth runs away from me..So I try my hardest to prepare for that.

I have to admit, I'm low key feminist. I believe in my gender, which is why I try to embrace them all. I'm friendly, and empowering that way. I want my women, to know, that they can go as far as they want, with or without their looks, or body. I want them to look at whatever they're doing now to make ends meet, as just, a HUSTLE. It's not the end all be all. Set goals, and time limits. What can I do next? Where do I want this to take me? How will this help me get to where I need to be, ten years from now? We all have to get into the practice of encouraging each other. Women, allow, the other sex, to keep them from truly fxking with other females. We have to do better, for the future us. You want people to respect you, we have to DEMAND it.

I enjoy the ass pictures, so I like them. I love seeing the curve of a woman's body, because I appreciate it's beauty, so I like them. But, I'm not the one you're putting them up for. Trust me, the gender you're putting it up for, is only visualizing what you'd be like in their bed; nothing further. Can you blame them? Sex sells, and you're selling sex for free. We can't claim a guy is thirsty, if you're giving him all the water he needs. (Think about that). I'm not perfect, nor an angel, because honestly I could care less, I just hate how we are being portrayed because of the silly things we've become accustomed to. There's no substance in a lot of us, and that's just sad.


If no one tells you, I love you girl. I love you for all that I think you can be, beyond your looks, or the sway of your hips. I love you beyond your pretty face. I love you for all that you want to be. I love you for your drive. You can rule the world, your world, this world, whatever world. Be bigger than your beautiful face; Embrace your personality. Embrace the talents God gave you. Walk into the room like you own it, because you do. Encourage your peers, your fellow woman, because if we don't stick together, we'll never get further. Be a role model for the young girls coming up, because even if you don't know it, they're looking up to us.


With lots of Love,

--A

P.s A smile is still the sexiest curve on your body. EVER.